Latest Outfit
Date | 9-28-24 |
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Occasion | A fab night out with Bestie! |
Clothes | Bright bubblegum pink slightly cropped and fitted cap sleeve button-up blouse with little bow knots on the sleeves, buttoned just once in the middle revealing midriff and a peek of bra underneath with little tiny micro mini black spandex shorts (borrowed from bestie thank you bestie!) |
Accessories | everyday silver crystal butterfly necklace, pearl stud earrings, light pink and dark brown embossed leather belt, reddish orange leather fossil shoulder bag with charms |
Shoes | Black patent block-heel square-toe mary janes |
Hair | Blown out and fabulous |
Makeup | my natural glowy uszh |
Feeling | sooo sexy and playful and cute and also COMFORTABLE asf. I wore my church shoes to the club and I had no regrets, they were so cute with the little shorts that were so comfy and made my legs look so good. Something about it felt so effortless. Kind of a last-mintue pull-together as I was wearing the pink shirt all day over my ballet clothes that I wore out to my daytime activities, so when i ended up back at bestie's house I had to make do. It turned out great. I had to buy some spandex shorts for myself immediately so I can experience their magic all the time. |
Musings, Miniblog
9/19/2024
It's been a while since I've shopped. I'm not keeping track, but I think it's been over a month at this point and it's odd to admit that this is the first time in a very long time that I've gone this long without buying clothes or shoes or accessories either online or in person.
I'm using this as an opportunity to really analyze and fine-tune my style. To identify the things that I live in and wear repeatedly and what I try to avoid. I'm allowing myself to wear outfits and experiment with pieces I may not even like, just to get myself out the door on time, build character, and identify what I don't like as well as what I do.
The past few weeks I've worn the exact same pair of shoes every day: black patent leather 2.5ish in high block heel square-toe mary janes I got recently (one of the last purchases before the no-buy began). These shoes have completely revolutionized my closet and have unlocked lots of clothes and combinations for me that I felt like I couldn't wear before because I just didn't have the right shoes that also fit me. These shoes, to me, go with almost everything and now that I've broken them in I'm perfectly comfortable walking in the heel all day. I like the lengthening and toning effect on the legs and the look can be varied in many ways with different socks, tights, pants, skirts, you name it. I love the heel because it makes the sweet girly shoe associated with youth feel more grown up.
These shoes filled the gaps in my closet I couldn't even identify and I now feel like I have a pretty workable collection of pieces. It's a relef to feel that way. I am very grateful for these cheap amazon shoes. Mary janes are a huge trend now but I've loved and worn them all my life and think I will continue to wear them often even after their popularity diminishes.
Personal style is repetition. Besides the mary janes, what have I been repeating lately?
I've been preferring light colors lately, though I still love the impact of a mostly-black outfit sprinkled in here and there. I don't think black suits me as an everyday thing, but it has its place in my style.
I prefer wearing skirts over pants, but I suspect if I had a pair or 2 of really perfectly-tailored trousers (one high rise and one mid rise) I would wear them often. I'm keeping that in mind for when I'm open to shopping again.
When I do wear pants I have been gravitating to my black skinny pants that I roll under and pin in place to create capris/pedal pushers. It's a nice way to make my officewear more summary and fashion-forward. I don't see anyone else in real life wearing capris, except maybe as activewear.
I've been a fan of plaid skirts since I was a kid. I had a blue plaid pleated mini skirt in the 5th grade I wore as often as I could because it made me feel cuter than anything else. Now I have 2 plaid skirts in my rotation: a knee-length blue and white genuine school uniform skirt that wraps around and buttons closed, with pleats on the side and back a smooth flat front, and a mini-er (not too mini for work, thankfully) maroon and blue pleated circle skirt. Neither is my dream iteration of a plaid skirt. Because I know I can count on myself to wear and wear a plaid skirt, I hope to one day find and invest in a beautiful wool plaid well-fitting a-line mini skirt, completely smooth and flat with no pleats. Burberry, I'm sure, is the brand that will fulfill these requirements.
Even though they're comfortable I don't like wearing tennis shoes unless I'm quite literally doing sports. I just don't have a pair that really fits in with the rest of my style identity. They are purely practical. It'd be cool to find a sneaker sometime that I can incorporate into my casual outfits. Perhaps I should take a note from my past self and get back into Converse? I was obsessed and they were the only shoes I wore from ages 11 to 16. They've still held up as a timeless classic casual shoe. I won't get any though until I run my current casual sneakers (high top lilac and white checkered vans) that I've had for like 5 years into the ground. Which won't be any time soon because I wear them so infrequently they're still in amazing condition. Perhaps I should just try to fall in love with the shoe I already have and find ways to use them as much as possible.
I'm really trying to adopt a mentality of using the things I have up completely before buying a new one. Just being tired or bored of it just isn't really as good a reason to spend money and add clutter to my home as it used to feel like it was.
I think I should be allowed to buy a belt. The only everyday belt I have is literally disintegrating. Another one I had I wore until it ripped in half. I have earned a belt. I'm going to buy a belt. Where do you buy nice belts for not a billion dollars?
I'm also trying to adopt a mentality of, if I want something, starting with buying the cheapest version of it and if I use it enough that it literally breaks, I'll know it'll be worth investing/splurging in a nicer version for the long-term. I will certainly be doing that when my mary janes die. A pair of leather Margiela tabi mary janes are my absolute ideal, as long as they're comfortable. I'd love to wear them for years and see how they change over time.
It's important that I come to terms with the fact that even though I generally try to consume as ethically as possible by thrifting, it's still overconsumption if I do it more than I need and don't use the things I have. This is me growing up. It feels good.
9/10/2024
This is not going to be organized I am just going to let the thoughts flow. Here's some things I'm into right now:
- polka dots
- mary janes
- heels
- a-line skirts
- showing lots of leg
- light-colored tights
- micro-mini shorts
- tight capri pants
- structured yet breathable fabrics
- showing lots of torso
- pink
- office siren vibes
- straight leg relaxed jeans
- Big blowout hair
- hair bows
- stripes
I was chatting with a friend recently about micro-trendy -cores and aesthetics. I think many of them are silly and reductive and disconnected from real life with one major exception: Office Siren. There is something so compelling about it to me. Probably because my fashion inspiration has long been (for years if not decades before Office Siren as a term was even coined) my mother dressing for her office job in the early 2000s.
At first I resented the term emtering public consciousness as an seo buzzword because I feared that people would think that I was simply following the trend and that the aesthetic would be run into the ground online and render my personal style overexposed and obsolete within a few months. I now know that having a strong sense of personal style completely transcends all those cores and aesthetics. That, and realizing that Office Siren is really only A Thing in niche communities online and that most people in real life have never heard the term and do not care in the slightest. Since real life is where my style is perceived the vast majority of the time (I hardly ever post on socials) my worries have been rendered silly and moot.
In any case, there is no other self-identified Office Siren doing it quite like I am. The sheer practicality of the aesthetic and application to my real life makes it perfect for me.
Allowing myself to lean into my vocation and dress myself as I would a character in a movie has brought me so much joy and fulfillment. Even if I sometimes dread the work, the 8 hours in a freezing office, I can romanticize it by wearing outfits that makes me feel like a heightened, confident, stylized version of myself.
My job is super regular and mundane. But that doesn't mean that dressing for the job means my outfits should be mundane. Wearing my stylized little outfits feels like a celebration of where I am in life. I didn't used to have to get dressed for work. Now I do and it's one of the best parts of my life and one of the most important expressions of who I am. Why shouldn't I celebrate every day? I'm proud to be a pink-collar worker and I'm going to look hot while I do it.
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Outfit repeating? You mean wearing my clothes?